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Right from inception, the male ego is naturally designed to be energetic, antagonistic, and problematic when it cuts across an opposition. Most parents have taught their sons to be the head and nothing short of the shoulders. (of course, no one is dragging the head with you)

Within the past few years, thousands of Nigerians picked interest in blogging. While some follow the day to day trend, others carve a unique niche for themselves. No doubt creating contents that have never been created before is one major difficulty but the most difficult experience ever is maintaining one's objectives, style and content to sustain valid readership.

Being a girl, lady, woman (female) I believe is a tremendous privilege anyone who finds herself on earth as such should appreciate other than complaining and comparing certain creational deeds that can’t be tweaked.

Friends with benefits also known as fwb is a kind of relationship many people go into in this 21st century, people go into it as a result of sexual feelings they want to act upon without being in the real deal (the boyfriend/girlfriend kind) .

As creatures made out of like and love of God it’s expected that our least crave or desire is to be loved, but it remains our daily yearn from birth to death.

   Hello ladies!!! It’s pretty amazing how many of you refrain from the goodies that lie before you for an electroplated gold that glitters in dark corners. It’s not difficult spotting a guy who loves you. Although with the trending nature of falsehood all over town, confusion settles into the choice one might make and affect the observations you record towards spotting who truly loves you.

There have been several quarrels and arguments on the gender inequality topic. Some people prefer the male gender instead of favouring both because they have equal capabilities.

     The context “Fantasy” in this article means “a created imagination that should come to life in a marriage setting”.    The thing is in relationships generally people randomly (guys and girls) think that romance” has to come from the male sex for the relationship to have enough fuel to make the fire last for eternity. When it comes to perfect romance, energy that powers it must be produced from both source (male and female).

   Hello Major Pane, how is the blog business going? I got a confession…    Years back I overheard someone talking about a man who killed his daughter because he saw her with a man. (Chuckle) Like seriously that is not sane, who will think of such, I mean girls can’t do without guys and vise verse. Well let me not talk so much because I will have a daughter someday.    My name is…no I can’t say it, this is a confession. Just read while I ease off the load on my manly chest.     It was a beautiful day, the kind of day you flash back to your childhood, the smell of fresh green grass, bright blue skies, even the way your little height prevented you from seeing afar. This soothing feeling led me to go see a cool female friend of mine named Gladys. When I got there we weren’t alone, her elder sister was with her boyfriend so I chilled with my friend at the exterior passage. It wasn’t long before her lovely bestie Lola came in. Beli...

    “It’s cold in mid noon. Silence settles slowly between us, we just had a quarrel. The kind of quarrel that sparks the imagination of a hundred millions things you could do to her. Why doesn’t she listen or get my P.O.V (point of view), all these i am doing is to make her a better person. The more I get pissed, the more I figure out my heart beats in the syllables of her name. Guess she needs to grow up, I’d give her some space.”    “The weather is so cold, all I need is his cuddle and warmth round me. He simply didn’t get me again…I can’t believe that horrible look could rest on his handsome face. Sometimes I wonder if been a lady means becoming a slave to a man. Who knows maybe that’s the price we have to pay for peace to reign because last time I checked a man is the boss isn’t it? But we are not married anyway so why this thought of complete submission?    

Click to download  "Nigerian Girl"    You know that feeling where you feel money is the best strategy to get that chick you have been crushing on. Well money they say answers all things and girls like money. But this particular Nigeria girl na another level ooooo...    Her belle dey like drum, she do shakara pass shakira, chop my money pass cutlass even break my pocket into pieces...if not for Slimboy, i should have been hospitalized. He advised me to speak my mind...BOOM the freestyle "Nigeria girl" emerged produced by Bigbelle records.    I know may guys who have experienced worse... Does money really aid love? Watch out for the article and video presentation "21st Century Relationship".     Like joke like joke i sing pass wizkid ooo...na so them start na..abeg dance shoki to the beat for there. But the girl fine sha!!! Click to download  "Nigerian Girl"

This article was edited by John Ovuson    Hey folks you remember we are not done with this series right? I don't know how many of you that's been following the article but I think at this point you might wanna pay attention. Boy or girl, Woman or Man or Alien c'mon pay attention to this.    Previously in this series we made mention of Self (Act 1) , Friendship (Act 2) and now Conversation (Act 3), Body Language (Act 4). It might shock you that I have been having people thanking me for this series and also asking for the continuation. Initially I felt we all know this but since its a guide, here is the continuation for

*This article was edited by  John Ovuson Here is the continuation of the amazing series for the boys if you are reading this article for the first time, please feel free to check out Act 1 on How to get a girl and Keep  so you wont be lost. Today's Act is a short one. ACT 2: FRIENDSHIP    Friendship is the spice of life. Friendship makes life worth living, although it can either make you or mal you. “How can friendship help in giving me a girl?”    We all have a friend that’s our mutual friend with other friends whom we just love having around. His/her presence spark fire around you and you wish they can stay forever. You can be that kind of friend to someone else. If you can be that then you have a good start.    Every girl wants someone social, someone other people will like to be with especially her friends. She intends sampling you to everyone she knows and if you don’t really meet up to that taste then she backs off ...

  *This article was edited by  John Ovuson “There are many fishes in the river”. Ever heard of that statement before? I know that saying. Back then I used to think “I don’t have to be fisherman before I catch a fish since I know how to swim”. Along the line, I realised I needed to be a fisherman if I wanna catch the best and biggest fish. In the world’s population, it’s recorded that the female sex is way more than the male sex. Lemme break it down for you this way; men have a problem within themselves, it is a problem they are born with. It is the testosterone gland which is responsible for aggression. When you watch TV or movies and see people shooting at themselves, who do you, see more? MEN. When you watch riot on the streets, which do you see more? MEN. When you hear of cultists, who do you see more? MEN. When you hear of war, who are majorly soldiers?   MEN. It’s all MEN; very little number of women is recorded in such misbehaviours or ...

   Talking about chatting slangs, we shouldn’t forget that the internet, computers, mobile phones, smart tv are virtually connected to a form glue in keeping the world together. English language is slowly transforming into something I’m yet to understand. It is as though everyone is having their own version of dictionary and new version of acronyms which are not really understood by other people.    What is the essence of communication if not for making someone get your Point Of View (POV) on an issue or situation or transferring ideas or beliefs and so on? Despite the fact some people are so used to all the internet terminologies, some others are not which give rise to communication imbalance even among educated people. BOY#1 Hello, your profile pic is fine!!! GIRL#1 You mean my dp ? Tnx BOY#1 What’s dp ? I’m talking of your profile picture o, the one you lying down with spaghetti top… Lol (laugh out loud) I can imagine how confuse...

   I read so many articles complaining about boys and how unreasonable they are when it comes to knowing people especially ladies feelings. Today, I want to say all I have had in mind about ladies since I was a foetus. If you ask a boy what a girl likes, his response would be: BOY: Pleasant surprises, interesting things, making her feel special, care, love, understanding, attention and cash even though you don’t wanna agree with me. But if you ask a girl what boys likes, her response would be: GIRL:     Sex, being in charge, soccer, hanging out with his pals (laugh).