Hello ladies!!! It’s pretty amazing how many of you refrain from the
goodies that lie before you for an electroplated gold that glitters in dark
corners. It’s not difficult spotting a guy who loves you. Although with the
trending nature of falsehood all over town, confusion settles into the choice
one might make and affect the observations you record towards spotting who
truly loves you.
I am glad to be in this opportunity to preach what I have been
practicing for the past two years and it’s been so perfect for me and my
relationship.
While I was growing up, it was pretty hard trying to blend been nice and
been wanted. I observed that ladies term to love bad guys to good guys…initially
it was so awkward hearing a girl confess her contradictory speech “I
want a guy who love and cares for me” but I thought there are so many
guys calling and checking up on you, especially that guy you take as a brother.
Well this is not an article on how to get a girlfriend, indeed how to
know a guy that loves you. For you to be fully knowledgeable of this kind of
guy, you need to bear in mind these few captions.
Concerned
over your personal growth and development:
This is one rare scenario; I mean who
cares for others growth when they haven’t finished theirs? There is great joy
in seeing someone come into that perfect maturity they were designed to be. A
guy who truly loves you has passion in fetching out the best in you, mold your
talent, strengthen your weakness, and skillfully assist you in achieving your
goals. Though it’s not everything he has to do for you in order not to spoil
you, sometimes he needs to leave you to make your own mistakes and learn from
it but still he is there as a guide.
Meeting
your needs not wants:
This is where girls and guys get it all
wrong. The fact that he might be wealthy doesn’t mean you two should spend it
all, or the fact that a guy is poor doesn’t mean he needs a yacht to make a girl
trip. The basics of love need to be understood before money is infused. Money
on its own brings love and admiration but when the foundation is faulty money
ruins everything. Needs are more important than wants, a guy who truly loves
you makes sure your needs are meant and anything outside that he disagrees and
make sure you understand why he is taking such action. It’s only a desperate
guy that is ready to spend heaven and earth to have you, sooner than expected;
it’s over because they can’t continue giving you that mirage treatment.
Patience/ Respect
Patience/ Respect
A guy who loves you, respect your space
and maintains his distance. He believes before he came into your life, you had
some friends you were attached to. He talks to you politely, shares his views
with caution but still not afraid to let you know how he feels. From his
expression you can tell he is not intimidated or afraid of you, this however
makes you the girl feel challenged and want to step up in several ways to impress
or please him. It’s human nature to feel important when their sense of
importance is questioned. (Tips for the guys)
An
advice for guys (thank me later): Due to a ladies
imbalance state of being, your attitude as a guy has to be imbalance as well. It’s
your unpredictable nature that marvels and thrills them the more, every moment
with you should be a new thing. Seek for new ways to glue the bond tighter and
spark her heart with happiness.
Abstinence
I used to doubt this long before now,
but I got to realize this truth can’t be contended. A guy that loves you is
like Edward in Twilight. He is a vampire for sure but despite how tempted Bella’s
blood called his name, he refrains from it. Any guy who takes you to be a sex
toy is only damaging your life. He is adding no value into your system rather
sowing seeds of regret, confusion, and most especially setbacks. If he can’t
hold himself from you, he can’t hold himself from another girl. What is a true
man if he can’t control his emotions and refuse to think with his two nuts
called balls?
Prayers
I know there are lots of Christian
brothers out there who pretend to love meanwhile they are wolf under sheep
clothing. Well after you must have judged and looked for other factors, this
factor is very important. A prayerful man is mighty man of valor. A guy who
speaks well into your day via text, calls and chats is truly someone that has
you at heart. You can see his intentions are good and not of evil to bring both
of you to a profitable ending.
It is no doubt that true love actually exist, it’s just how well you
position yourself to be spotted by it. So bad many ladies are not at the right
spot, mood, dress sense when that your dream man comes knocking.
On the other hand, my heart aches when I realize that there are
virtually very few men who meet up to this requirement. Get working on yourself
not for yourself alone but for the very person you will live the rest of your
life with someday. I rest my case.
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I would like to talk about the spending part; the 'needs' and the 'wants'. I don't want you to get it twisted buh sometimes extravagance helps spicing up emotions, at least every once in a while (if the money is within reach tho). An average girl's needs would mostly be met by her parents/source of income before she met you (for the things i refer to as needs such as school fees and items, upkeep, feeding,etc). For the other part; the 'wants', are the fancy things every girl would always want. Desperate girls would want it by all means while the good girls would want it as well only if its available. These things could be their hair, clothes, shoes, phones, bags, name it. There is no girl that would despise elegance except if she's 'straight outta the bush' lmao! Now, depending on how buoyant you are you can take up on either of these kind gestures. That does not mean you cant cater for her needs maybe in times of emergency. But note: no guy is responsible for any girl financially until you have engaged her. Let me rest my case.
ReplyDeleteBravo bro very well said. I totally agree with you. "Straight outtakes bush" super cracked me up Lol.
DeleteBut on what you said concerning shoes, bags, cloths and all that of course those are needs just that a reasonable guy knows when to limit it esp when its crossing towards un-needed wants.
Your last punchline nailed everything mehnmehn. Nice bro
Mr Jerry and Mr Paul, I disagree with both of you.. bush or city non either tells well on our ladies but self moral teaching will determine whether she's a material or just mare side bag lady. My friends the same way you can ask about God and at the end get to know the source is same way you can try to define love and finally realise it has no depth. To know whom truly loves you, you'll need God's grace and wisdom b/c there are many acquaintances in the world but few friends. We are humans we fake our feelings to get what we want. May the Good Lord continue to guild our paths in this unknown journey. Seleh. Remember #IamTheoracle
ReplyDeleteHummm Mr Oracle. If I may ask. How would you know a girl that loves you?
DeleteI believe she has to exhibit one or two moves for you to know. Even God set exhibited his love for the children of Isreal.
Wasn't it the things he did and the ones he will do that keeps making us love him more?
To me o ...yes love is abstract but same time it needs physical manifestation to quicken believability.