HOW TO AVOID UNNECESSARY SPLIT by NewDawnBrothers

    We must have come across stories on the separation of dance group, music group even business group, marriages, friendship etc. as a result of major short comings or complete misunderstanding. Was the group meant to split at the first place, were they destined to split, could there be better ways to avoid separation? Groups yet to be formed are not aware of these lurking questions.

   Across the border, music groups like Backstreet boys, Nsync, Spice Girls, Destiny Child, Gunit, The Beatles etc. wasn’t left out from the breakup omen. Even in our very own country Nigeria, we witnessed the likes of Style plus, Plantation Boyz, P-square, and many more we didn’t know existed.

   When it comes to the “let’s make money” punch line, things go wrong. Is it possible for a group to remain intact for a very long time? It’s almost rare, but it is possible. There are certain enlightening points that shine the torch of understanding, exposing you to useful tools for stronger bond.

INDIVIDUAL UNIQUENESS: Everyone in a group has their own unique skills which make up a group. More insight can be drawn from 1corthians 12:14-18…Yes the body has different part not just one part, if the foot say I am not a part of the body because I am not a hand that does not make it less part of the body and if the ear I am not a part of the body because I am not an eye will that make it any more less part of the body. If the whole body were an eye how will you hear or if the whole body were an ear how will you smell anything but our body have many parts and God have put each part just where he wants it. You have to know the importance you play in a group and this can’t be known without you knowing your personal value.

3^RD PARTY: People can only give you an outside view or advice of what they think concerning pressing or challenging matters which arises in a bond, which is likely to test the foundation on which the structure of that bond was built. But only you and the people in your group, the person in your relationship, the person you are in partnership with and so on, has the 3D view of the solution to handle whatever problem it is because you all know the vision, plans, stages, losses, wins and steps of the completion pertaining to that vision.

TRANSPARENCY: A drinking glass that is not transparent makes its content difficult to see. A group planted on an opaque soil produces deceit, lies which might lead to the death or destruction of the group and its vision. You need to state your principles, likes, dislikes, wants, needs to each other…do not assume the other party will know them. Transparency builds trust; consolidate a fresh friendly atmosphere which will facilitate the vision.

OPEN EARS (COMPROMISE): Everything doesn’t have to go your own way. Seek for other crew opinion towards achieving one goal. A group that doesn’t have a leader or head is likely to be shaky when it comes to stating certain laws and implementation but with the knowledge of “compromising” better understanding can settle in among members of the group. When a suggestion is been made, you need to evaluate by scanning the information and sapping out its goods.

   In conclusion, we have to be completely aware of negative talks that could rise up affecting the bond. In every business plan, relationship, group, marriage, partnership etc. always allow God to speak, until he does do not assume because we will come across qualified people but it will take Him to identify the most qualified.