Okay for today let me share this thought
with you. I watched a movie some time back. A boat was sinking, the crew freaked
out. Some jumped off unknown that there were other crew members trapped in a
section of the boat. Water started flooding the room they were. One of them came
up with an idea “why don’t we strip and use our cloths to block the places water is
entering from?” knowing fully well their lives depended on this weird
idea, they accepted and did so.
Okay I’m going to ask you, what if you are
in this condition and you have torn boxers, or torn bra, your singlet is brown
instead of white? I guess you wouldn’t accept taking off your cloth…where they
will swear for you is when your cloth is right to fit into one hole. I think
about this every day, dress as though an emergency is likely to meet up with
you (meaning
dress with the mindset that the world is seeing you inside out)
Let’s look at some rescuing tips that will
come in handy to smoothen our relationships.
Long
Dirty Nails/Dirty Ears: Manicure and pedicure is not only
for ladies. People do call me gay when they spot me using nail files or nail
cutter. The truth is it doesn’t reduce one bit of my hygiene. Short nails are
reasonable but clean long nails are attractive. If you can’t keep your nails neat
and well carved because there are some awkward looking nails out there, then
cut/file it into the right shape. (What qualify a girl despite her beauty in
my eyes are her nails, I feel if she can’t take care of the ones we can see,
meaning the ones we can’t see will be appalling)
*Avoid biting of nails, mehn that thing is
gross especially when done in public. You don’t want your spouse hiding you like
Tarzan when you two are out do you?
Ever shared ear piece with someone, when they
return it you see dirt around the rubber lobe? Or you sit beside someone you
admiring and you see that brown sauce called ear wax sticking out? I know the feeling;
it chases every bit of emotion.
Bad
Breath: After eating all the sharwama, suya, drinking
yoghurt and so on, it’s advisable you maintain a good breath which can be
achieved by regular brushing of the teeth and scrubbing of the tongue morning
and evening. I know majority of us break the evening section but it’s very
important we cultivate the habit in order to freshen our breath. We should also
know that visiting the dentist is not only for those who have tooth ache, the
rich, or westerners…the importance of a dentist can’t be over
emphasized. If the tooth is not properly taken care of, there are some coatings
that wraps round the enamel causing it to look untidy which absolutely kills
your smile. Same way you saving for that new phone/cloths is same way you
should save to visit the dentist and have yourself a confident smile.
*Ever observed people with bad
breath are those who comes closer to your face while talking. If you haven’t witnessed
bad breath before, board a bike early hours in the morning. You will reach your destination when Aboki opens his mouth (lol).
Dandruff:
Dry scarp may result from dry weather or refusal of using hair cream, gels and
spray. As a guy you need to regularly cream or spray your hair as well as
ladies who might fix weavon or whatever... No more Dandruff, Dark and Lovely, Soul
Mate, Activators; these are some quality hair creams and gels that
gives you that dark spotless shine that will get anyone tripping. As for the
ladies it’s completely unappetizing when you rest your head on your spouse and
he sees flakes of dried scarp. (Ewwww)
Hum which other point I haven’t mentioned?
Oh I remember now!!! As for untidy rooms
abeg you are not a toddler who they will be cleaning after. If you
can’t take care of your room then how will you take care of someone else or
raise a neat family? Dirty environment pollutes your spirit; you will
never sleep nor breathe well. Make sure everything has its house (place
where they kept). Scrub bathrooms, toilets frequently. Make use of air refreshers;
sometimes spray your perfume in the air. Dry clean your bed sheets, pillow
cases even your wrappers and duvets. Remember our spouse are not our slaves
whom we waiting to come tidy our lives. Show a sign of maturity and
responsibilities by doing such. Cleanliness attracts people and causes anyone
to fall in love deeply.
N/B: Its not everyone that's clean outwardly who is neat in the inside...you need to visit some flashy girls house OmG, she'd become ugly before your eyes immediately.(Trust me i have been there)
N/B: Its not everyone that's clean outwardly who is neat in the inside...you need to visit some flashy girls house OmG, she'd become ugly before your eyes immediately.(Trust me i have been there)
Someone might have a wrong perception about
you but when they visit your safe haven; their negative perception will be formatted.
That’s the power of cleanliness.
Okay I rest my case.
Hygiene has been a silent killer in many
relationships. Take out time to talk about issues bothering you about your
spouse hygiene in a polite manner and set out constructive ways to let them see
why they need to embrace personal hygiene remember the main aim in a
relationship is bringing out the best from each other.
Hygiene is an everyday personal work we must
pick interest in and enjoy. We shouldn’t cultivate the habit only when our
spouse or loved ones are around in order to please them. Like my saying goes “it
is the things you do in the private that makes us glow in the public”.
It’s up to you to develop a good personal hygiene which I believe will make
your relationship blossom.
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ReplyDeleteVery nice Pauly, well said.
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