LONELY VALENTINE (REMIX)

    This write up is dedicated to everyone having a Lonely Valentine, if you hooked up this Valentine Please read something else *lol, winks*
    This writeup was edited from the original concept.

   It’s so cozy realizing you loved by someone amongst the weird looking people the world house. Not just conditionally, unconditionally; sharing almost everything including saliva “Omg”. When she was younger she thought relationships were repulsive and very difficult particularly after hearing some awkward stories on how people share bodily fluids and so on.

   She can vividly remember this particular day last year which keeps resounding “wow!!!”. First thing she received last year valentine was a huge bouquet of rose flowers accompanied with a bucket of chocolate and a note that read “Thanks for adding a flavourable taste and an alluring fragrance in my life you sugar coated being”. As though it wasn’t late for surprises to quit coming in, her boyfriend dropped by at her place and picked her up for a lovely dinner in the evening. He took her to an expensive restaurant; from her observation he booked the reservation one month earlier due to the congestion the facility experience during love seasons like Valentine.

   Just like every girl’s fictional-realistic dream, the music was as light as the wine, every word that came out of his lips sank deep within her, all she wanted was his touch, his embrace, feel his abs caterpillar tire envied, hear him call her name in a moaning tone. 

   Wake up!!! Silence and quietness is all she can hear this year valentine, her life is the quietest planet any astronaut can visit. It wasn’t up to a week after the special valentine date they had he pulled the grenade’s pin right in the very eyes of everyone. They really went a long way in their relationship, so long that their friends became friends, their family members became intertwined. No it wasn’t the most embarrassing moment; it was a quake in a volcano. If tears could speak, hers would have written the most adored poem in the world or  sing a Grammy award worthy track. Her cheeks got burnt with the scars of shame.

   It took her one year to figure out this loneliness was what she needed; she was wrong, wrong right from the beginning, wrong from the day she accepted his proposal for a relationship. While in this wilderness of heartbreak, her eyes opened to what her role truly is in this world as a young woman. She told herself  "i'm not here to be a story for his current girl and be regarded as an “Ex”.  If only we will tell ourselves the truth for ones, there is nothing wrong in been single, singularity is the best thing anyone can enjoy in this life, for it is the joy and accomplishment of the single moments that makes the hooked up moment a blast. This she concluded within herself causing her to make steps towards accomplishing her personal desires with ease.

 

   She was desperate for a relationship, couldn’t wait to be grown in order to enjoy the dividend of what matured individuals get. A desperate person gets cheated, maintaining ones independence is the ultimate way to add value to your identity.

   She figured out you can love someone 100% but once they have 0% of love towards you, it yields to 0% love when multiplied. Every day she gets convinced that she doesn’t need to go round the clubs in town to see “MR RIGHT” who says he was lost anyway? "We are going to come across ourselves as I continue doing the regular things I do and instead of me tossing myself at him, I prefer to unfold myself gradually" She assured herself. But in the main time, this singularity is the best gift she can ever possess in this life, quit the rush, and quit listening to people meaningless excuses for falling into fruitless relationship.

   Her mum explained the idea of relationship this way… she said “Every relationship demands a responsibility, it’s just like a baby in the arms of its mother and as weak as it is, carries another baby. This wont only make the mother grow weaker but as well suffocate the child. There is time for everything, don’t suffocate yourself”. These words will only sink into the heart of someone who is wise.

   Oh Valentine!!! the most controversial event people falls prey to several cold-blooded deceptions not forgetting the season has "3L" Love, Lust and Loneliness...its good you choose wisely. Any relationship that’s not adding any value (self worth) to your life is a prey; flee before it’s too late. 

   Can mention this is the best valentine ever. *Cheers*

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