This article was edited by: John Ovuson
There
is a rumour going around town that guys lend money from girls and don’t pay
back. Here's an advice if you are such a guy:
“please take a knife and cut of your penis”.
Why
in God’s name would you do such? Not only are you degrading our masculine image
but also tarnishing your own image before the ladies.
There
is a female friend of mine that complained about a friend of hers (who is a guy)
that borrowed 10,000 naira from her. She initially had no intentions of giving
the dude but such people happen to be good actors by wearing a pitiful face,
thereby wooing her into lending him the money (hoping he’d pay back as at when
due as he has promised). Along the line, weeks turned to months, months turned
to years and now the dude is playing ghost like a murder suspect.
Why
will you lose your freedom for something you can easily payoff? He can’t say he
hasn’t been buying stuffs for his girlfriend or having a good time with her!
Another advice, 'you only borrow when you know the resources to pay is
available'. Most times, avoid borrowing because when it’s time to pay back, we
all find it difficult to, we see it as though we are doing them a favour by
giving them money which many of us are guilty of not been a giver. That’s the
stupid psychology of the act of borrowing.
Let’s
look at the act of borrowing logically. If you are broke and you borrow 5,000
naira to pay back in a week time; and the following week, you get 10,000 naira
and return the borrowed 5,000 naira; you’d be left with 5,000 naira. Now,
managing 5,000 naira within the same time frame 10,000 is supposed to last is
bound to increase your chances of getting broke yet again.
Girls,
if I am to advice you, don’t borrow guys cash because it’s very difficult
asking them back, most of them might take advantage of their masculine power
and use it to threaten you (unlike your fellow girl you can easily drag, or
fight over your own stuff). Either ways both sexes have their own disadvantages
when it comes to borrowing cash.
In
conclusion, a typical example of the word “borrow” is the new telecommunication
strategy of increasing their sales. Once you borrow from your network, you
automatically become a slave until you pay back. If I am lying, why do you hit
your head when they take their money back? You don’t end up seeing it as
payback instead you see it as though you are giving them your hard earned
money. I think its good we plan our
finances right so we don’t tie ourselves in the borrowing act because it’s
addictive.
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Haha. True! Paul no dey spoilt market for boys na. I dey like borrow, then back am up with cheap gift, hehe. And dat way I don't loose
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