I have come across people say stuff like “there is no time to think of the past let’s
move on” or “the past is a waste”.
Well I don’t know about you but isn’t it as
a result of the past we are what we are today and what we are today determines
how our tomorrow will be?
Thanks to time, if you have a good knowledge
of bending time, you will observe that the lines written above are “the past” and the main idea of this
article are the sentences you are currently reading “the present” which will lead you to a profitable cognition “the future”.
Fortunately
it’s unarguable that there is no success that can’t be drawn to the past. Past as it is has its own value essentials
to humanity. “Learn from your mistakes”…
Mistakes are things of the past
isn’t it? But at the time you were making the mistake it was a present action. Successful
people always have a way of talking on their struggling days in the past, suffrage and stress which lead them
towards making a decision that pivot the beautiful speech we hear them speak.
Now that we have understood the strength of
past, will you want to know about the past of your loved ones? (please drop your comment on this question, will want to know your answer...)
Let’s
be sincere to ourselves, I have heard some people say “they won’t want to know the past of their loved one” others say “its past why bring it up” another say “there are some things you had better not
know in order not to hunt your consciousness”.
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| Uniformitarianism: The present is the key to the past. |
Okay good reasons for us to ignore the past
but ever thought “if fruits of the past seeds comes knocking on our door in the
future?” In my eyes, I believe something you have slight information on is
better than been ignorant. There are couples who never knew their husband had
another family kicking strong and healthy in same town although in another
house. There are men who never knew how many abortions their wives had in the
past thereby hindering her from delivering a baby in her present marriage. A female
friend of mine opened up saying that she doesn’t want her current boyfriend to
know about her past, because if he does, he will leave. I can go on and on.
Do you know any person you tell your past
and refuse accepting you, don’t really love you?
If not that humans have built a repulsive
condemning gesture when told the truth about the past, I believe people would
be more encouraged to talk about their past freely without been judgmental.
Now you see not accepting peoples past has
affected the future of the world. People keep more secrets than the FBI, CIA,
MIA these days like we are all spies looking for the nearest window to swing
open when been told the truth of the past.
We should know that we go through mistakes
not just for ourselves alone however for the rest personalities. We should
embrace people mistakes, strengthen them to fight back in areas they were conquered,
encourage their success, never condemn them because you that’s condemning is
nothing better than mere dust when placed in population of the earth. Let’s
seek for how we can make the present lead to a profitable future.
Our future is pinned on how we live our
present, our present will become past in a matter of seconds. If you want a
bright future then live a bright present so that people will be told of your
bright past.
Have a blissful day guys. Love you loads.
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To add to this write up....I feel is better for you to tell your loved one about your past than them hearing it from the lips of another. That pierce more mehn.
ReplyDeleteNice subject. I'd like to take the questions one after the other. First, would i want to know the past of my spouse/girlfriend? I dont exactly know which is more adviceable, whether to inquire or not to bother at all, but what am certain of is that my curiosity would find its way. What i cannot guarantee is the outcome after i have found out cos am the most unpredictable person i know, whether things would remain the same or not. I sincerely think that if 'you think' that you have a bad past, u owe it to ur spouse to open up. u dont even have to let him be the one to ask or find out or assume its in the past and should remain in the past. U owe him to tell him, sometimes it might breed negative changes temporary, sometimes maybe permanently, in this case u move on to find ur mr right.
ReplyDeleteSecondly, Do you know any person you tell your past and refuse accepting you, don’t really love you? Well, when i first saw this line i was ready to argue and counter it, but then i let it be and decided to read it again when am more relaxed. That was when i realised its actually a simple/hard truth. What i dont totally agree with is for people to go ahead making all the mistakes in the world and later come back to present them with demand for forgiveness (because if u dont forgive them then u literally become the bad person).
In a nut shell, am the kind of person that part of the thing that can make me love someone deeply is their past, when i find out this is what u did when u were growing up, this is what u have always loved since u were little, this is who u dated back in high school, yunno, silly simple stuff like that. So when u say the past dont matter, i tell u to speak for urself. I have so much to say buh i just gotta end it here.
Omgggggg....my bro....you nailed it. I am so in sync with you on every word you said.
DeleteEsp opening up to your spouse without them asking you...you said alot to make want to write episode two Lol. Really appreciate....I like your open heartedness
Thanks Paul. Sincerity breeds connection. Watching out for episode two lol.
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