CHEMICAL REACTIONS DIRECTLY PROPORTIONAL TO HUMAN REACTIONS

   Hello guys, good day. I received a hot powerful mail lately and decided to share it over here mehn. Get your gloves and goggles cos it might harm your naked flesh.

   Why must a negative charge, the careless, reckless, callous and unforgiving charge be attracted by a committed, faithful, enthusiastic and loving positive charge? I find that cruel, but that is the way it is, it is what drives us, drives the world and many things in it. It is true that like charges repel each other and unlike charges attracts in an atom, and then of course not forgetting the neutral charge, that is sitting on the fence, whose job is to keep the whole structure together.

   The smallest particle of anything whether animate or inanimate is an atom. It comprises three significant and interesting charges (electron, proton, and neutron). Studying an atom and its peculiar charges could answer many questions about many things, don't you agree? As it is usually said that “if you want to solve a problem completely, you have to go to the root of it”

   Studying the atom may not provide solution to all problems, but it can at least shine some light on some of the things we encounter on a day to day basis, most especially in the way we humans react to each other, I am talking about “relationships”.

   Remember in chemistry we were shown that these atoms react as well, a free radical charge is very unstable and will bond easily with another which is also unstable. Why are they unstable, they are unstable because the electrons around its shell are not complete, so let’s say, an atom A has an incomplete shell and another Atom B is undergoing the same dilemma, as long as they complete the needed electrons in their most outer shell, the stay together and becomes a compound.

   Isn't this what we see today on our daily human reactions? Everybody is looking for something in one area of their lives, some find it and some don't. You know I sometimes wish just like an atom we carry signs on our head so everyone can know what they are and whether they are right for each other.

   It’s beautiful when you find another atom that completes each other, but it’s a devastating experience if the opposite is the case. Have you seen when two people who are not right for each other try to make a relationship work? It’s like mixing water and red oil. They try to build it up to an extent only to watch it all fall down like a game of Janga.

   Back to the positive and negative, I have observe that relationships these days is all a game that goes round like a carousel ride, anyone can jump in at any time and jump out whenever they feel like, but the ride, the circle never stops.

   Ever found a guy you thought was a player? He was not always like that you know, something happened along in his shell. Ever found a girl who doesn't give a shit, who is a snub and very unwilling to love except when she realise that she getting older and she needs to settle down? She wasn't always that way you know, something happened to her as well.

   My pastor said something very profound "hurting people hurt others" Check this scenario out. I am pretty sure for most people who have ever been in love, it happened when they were young, probably high school meaning at their teenage ages, 13-19, sometimes it goes just a bit higher than that, just a bit. The feeling they experienced during that period was second to none. Lie all you want, but you can never feel the same about anyone again. Love is more than feelings I know, but I am talking about reaction here remember. The reaction between the both of you I mean your “first girl” was magical, most people will confirm that. But somewhere along the line it didn't work out. You are hurt, she is hurt. Then it happens again, you find another girl, she finds another guy after a while, break up, and again and again and again. Till you both become cold.

   Along the line, you find someone that is new in this ride because of your cold nature, you hurt that guy or that girl, and he/she starts that circle of none lasting cold relationships, and passes it on to the next, and so on and so on.

   For some people it gets so bad that it now all boils to just one single interest “fulfill their sexual human desire” and that's all they are after, no love, no feeling, no reaction. They’re now completely a negative charge (an electron), that will bond with one that is radical as they are. It’s always a sad story when they bond with someone new in the carousel; the latent power to become a radical atom has just been deposited in that newbie.

   If you look at the world we living in today and take a closer look at the relationships we see, it’s usually like this, one of the partner cares more than the other. Meaning one atom has more positive charge than the other and we know that positive charges attracts, only in some rare cases where they perfect for each other. This further explain why it seems that most good girls are attracted to bad guys, the so called players signed to no team, guys they know are likely to use and dump them, and also you see some guys holding on so hard to a girl who barely gives a shit about them and would likely dump them soon.

   This refers me a lyric in one of the song from Taylor swift "boys only want love if its torture, don say I didn’t, say I didn't warn ya".Why would she say that? It is because it happens more than expected, most guys (newbies in the carousel) get whipped and holds on to a girl who treats them callously.

   When one has more positive charge than then other and tends to care more, it barely works despite the effort infused, causing them not fit for each other. You don't complete each other shell, why? He/she has too many electrons on their outer shell, all your positive affection, love care and concern will get used up and still will not be enough to complete his/her shell, and then because of their radical nature, they likely to move on to the next.

   This is just my brief analytic description of the basic root of many relationship problems. Of course there is more that happens in a relationship, but it all boils down to the reaction. Almost everything has a chemical explanation which I believe relationships do? When the reaction is all wrong, it’s most likely the both of you would not last long.

    So what’s your take on it? I remember saying something in the article CARELESS; I would rephrase it.

Your personal deficiencies are not second or third party infused they are first person infused. If you are saying reason why you are cold is because those you showed love took you for granted, it means you actually are cold in the first place. You were only trying to please them by acting loving. Focus your gaze on God and let your action be to please him either anyone is around you or not. That way when people identify with you, they feel nourished. If they choose to go, one day they will figure out you are indeed a worthy person.

 Don’t Quit Developing Yourself.

   Yea, back then i remember saying amma pay back, lately i saw it makes no sense... we get pushed to the wall, turned inside out, heartbroken and all sorts, but do you know negative transformation can cause you to lose the good things in life. Left for me if my heart is broken, I choose to love again, yes more cautious but not hindering my spouse from the goodies in a relationship. Reason being that the person who hurt me is somewhere sipping martini and I am there having negative residues affect my current moment that ought to be joyful…hell no!!! Mistakes are made neither for us to become stupid nor wicked rather wiser. If you can’t hold a relationship no need starting one.

   Define your friendships and relationships so no one gets cheated and left out. 

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