21st Century Relationship

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   Wadup world, Hola Lovebirds!!! Good day to my lovely delicious readers. Today I’m going to be talking on something very spicy i have cooked up for like a year now… I call it 21century relationship.

   I remember long long time ago when my dada met my mama, before Newton Paul aka Major Pane was born, there was no major fast food franchises like we have today.

   I’m sure back then it was a buker probably tagged "Mama Shinbine Restaurant" with the slogan “home away from home”. Definitely he took my mama out, bought her stuff to water the ground for his proposal and he proposed on bend knees. (Lol i imagine this every time dad, you rock)

   Well the caption here is technology and development was springing up in that era. Unlike today where we have major fashion labels, fast foods, shopping malls, recreation centers, and so on. However it has boosted the demands and supply needed to make any relationship work.

   I’m going to talk from three sides of the coin...yes when it comes to relationships, it breaks natural laws.

   On the first side on my coin is the good part of 21^st century relationships. It’s not boring; just as mention earlier in the 21^st century you have phones, cinemas, swimming pools, shopping malls, parks, zoo, gardens and so on whichever you find suitable to your personality to visit. Although, all these can’t be enjoyed with an empty pocket; you need to liquidate your pocket so your spouse won’t be bored in the relationship. Some ladies are guilty of comparing their relationship with others at times which is completely not acceptable and if you don’t meet up to her requirements or expectations consider the relationship exterminated bro. The truth is if you don’t take care of your spouse, someone else will. 

 

On the second part of my coin, Lemme share a story with you.

   There was this guy who was asking a girl out, he didn’t have money but he felt he needed to impress her because of the saying “girls like money or money answers all things” so he borrowed a huge amount, took her to KFC every now and then. He buys stuff for her but he doesn’t get for himself. When she asks him “are you not placing any order”? he says “No!!! I am so filled I ate earlier on". He even describes the mountain of eba he ate or he says “I’m so drunk in love no space for food”. (Okay o!!!)

   It continued over one month, two month, along the line he started shedding weight, while the girl on the other hand gained lots of weight. He summoned up courage and asked her one day…you haven’t accepted my proposal and she replied him saying…"oh I’m so sorry the truth is, I’m not into slim guys".

    OMG… Did someone just collapse??? I know many of us have been in this situation before, but you don’t need to allow it repeat again or allow anyone go through this scenario. 

This is where the third part of my coin comes in. 

   You really don’t have to rush into relationship its expensive to maintain, do you know how much people involved in one spend on credit on daily basis? It is horrible. Do you know how many people have lost their life time investment just like our brother who owes so much debt at the moment?

    Guys you need to stand on your ground and learn how to give a lady her needs rather than her wants. Marriage and Dating are similar, in marriage just like how the men are the head of the house while women are the neck same way in relationship the boys are the hands while girls are the wrist. Every reasonable girl will teach her boo how to invest and save for a brighter future. That’s why you don’t date anyone. You date a reasonable girl. 

 It seems my coin has a 4^th side lemme check

   Oh yea!!! in order for your relationship to survive in this era, you have to be creative, it helps reduce boredom….make sure it’s one that suite your personality. It could be watching airplanes take off at the airport, having picnics at the beach/park, swimming, movies, visiting parks, reading books and asking yourselves questions, playing hide and seek, play rhyme game, play conversational games, play co-op/multiplayer games on phones or consoles, or whatever. Sometime last year, i took my girlfriend to the museum, it was fun and same time scary...i freaked out at some point when i saw an unexpected human statue in a hut...this cracked both of us up for the rest of the day. I'm so not telling you more of my creative ideas before you steal it… go look for your own way of having fun lol.

Expect this while playing games lmaoooo

   Money is not the pillar of a relationship it just makes it sweeter…you cant buy happiness if not why couldn’t our brother get the girl he spent money on?

   A good relationship educates you, polishes your personality, inspires you, motivates you, humbles you, energies your creativity, and most especially makes you get closer to God. If your relationship doesn’t bring out the best in you, my dear RUN for your life.

   Lemme round up with my newly found Newtons 4^th law… “You loose money chasing women but you never loose women chasing money”. 

   Guys I believe you have learnt a lot, go and cause a change in your relationship for good, and ladies your boyfriend is not your God or daddy ooo..same way you need money is same way he needs it or you think we don’t wanna wear fancy shoes too? Joor ooo

    It has come to my notice that girls/boys don't upload pictures of their loved ones or special moments with their loved ones on social media except if their married, everyone has gone underground...what's the cause? Could it be as a result of the high level of cheating or unstable relationships, then maybe having your pastor on your Facebook friend list is another thing. Well we talk about this another day.

 

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