MAMA'S BOY

 “Mama’s boy”!!!

   From the sight of the context one can have a mental picture of this...

   Many male folks will agree with me we find this phrase annoying…it’s a name tagged to any boy who is so attached to his mum. It’s also believed that the bearers of this name absolutely cannot stay a day without their mothers as though she is the air they breathe. On the other hand they say guys like this barely have a word and world of their own. Everything mama says goes and nothing else precedes it.

   Well I have come today to tell you that there is a huge difference between a “Mama’s boy” and “A boy who loves his mother”. The two are almost similar but one draws a more matured approach which I believe shouldn’t be mistaken by anyone after this article.

MAMA'S BOY: Naïve, quiet, shy, dependent… sums up to a guy who is completely homely but completely unattractive to ladies when in the public. No one wants to date him because he doesn’t really know how to put himself together. Even when he has a girlfriend, he doesn’t know how to arrange his priorities, distinguish family matters from personal matters and at this stage knowing when to bring “the mum factor” into a convo is pretty not clear, because he sees his mother as everything.

   I was once in this state, unpleasant but it wasn’t my fault. What will you do if you lost your dad at a very tender age, grew up in the midst of three ladies and obviously have no taste for bad things? I was all alone in the male world. I took several bullets, ego torture and countless defeat before I got that perfect answer I was searching for (thanks for the right friends).

 

   It’s ironic how ladies who will someday be mothers are the ones who get disgusted when they see a boy who is so crazy about his mum.

A BOY IN LOVE WITH HIS MOTHER: This is the matured version of a responsible male folk, someone who has a heart, compassionate in his doing. Mothers get to act like wives at some point in a guy’s life. Show me a boy that loves his mother and I’d show you a man who will love his wife. It’s clear that a boy who will make a good husband is visible during his earlier and older days with his mother.

    At this stage he doesn’t care about what anyone says even though he is called “Mama’s Boy”. Before now I feel very repulsive carrying my mums hand bag, felt like I was completely naked but today I can carry her bag on my head regardless of who is present. I got to figure out that the way you present your family or mother is the way your spouse and friends will take them.

   If you are the type that’s trying to ridicule your responsibility as a male child by pleasing the public in the sense of acting all cocky towards your mother then you must be that imbecile I was avoided mentioning earlier.

   People say all manner of stuff; call you several names to make you feel absurd, indirectly they wish to be in your shoe which is treating their parents as lovely and warm as you do. If only you will be smart to play your path and ignore what “them say”, you will surely live a peaceable life full with love and compassion.

   Although, a boy who loves his mother knows the right way to balance family issues and personal issues, he knows how to talk to his mother when her views clashes with his, he knows how to make decisions on her behalf in order to reduce her stress, he knows how to compliment her, encourage her when she is down, in fact his days with her is a true test of how well he will be when he gets married.

   If I were a girl, I wouldn’t be putting an eye on the Hit-men, or the beer frogs and party docks but rather that man who is in love with his mother. Same way he respects and treats his mum like a heroine, when he chooses you to be his lovely woman, multiplication of affection is yours. 

   My girlfriend sent me a cool text message one day and it read "...never you make friend or be in a relationship with anyone who doesn't have a controller...if they say you are mummy's boy! Proudly say yes! Because she keeps my life detailed! She's my life secretary".

   I can relate with the fact that not all guys were privileged to be close to their mothers or still have their mothers alive, I perfectly understand. But when you give birth to your son, teach him how to be a right man towards his mother and wife through your exampling lifestyle.

      Last minute thought to ladies who insult guys close their mum… how would you feel as a lady if your son does not show adequate care especially when you older. Payback is a bitch right? I thought you were the one who blamed other male folks for been so concerned about their mum now it’s your turn for old age and your eyes are wet. Dry it up and face your fate.

   As parents grow older, they become babies, they need energetic and vibrant humans around…it’s more advantageous, joyous, to have your child who you cared for reciprocates to you.

       Things just have a way of coming around, if you don’t treat your parents well, your kids are likely to forget you someday. Whatever decisions or mockery you making against someone, remember someday you too are going to be a parent and all you have sown in your young days will be multiplied in your older days.

   If you are a boy who is in love with your mum put your hands up and drop your comment.

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