HOW TO ATTAIN MATURITY

   Hello pals, good lovely day to you. Where ever you are or where ever you might be, I believe the weather is favorable to you? Nigeria can be so hot at times and another time can be so cold...thanks to the rain lately for shielding the sun, i am so getting my choco skin tone back... *type thinking*.

   In my write up “HOW OLD ARE YOU” I realized some people live their future presently instead of waiting patiently for it to unfold. You know oil and water does not mix in anyway, it will be very obvious spotting how weird it is when you see a 16year old do something expected of a 30year old. Well the hunt for maturity is on the rise in this era because we feel maturity is all that is needed to succeed and excel.

  On this note, we can relate to the angle where someone young has been tagged “a matured individual” while someone older “a baby”. The point here is maturity is not all about age, it’s just expected that after spending many years on earth, your actions shows how much knowledge you have salvage from your experiences.

   If you reading this article and you find it’s a little bizarre in been mature or find it hard to blend maturity with your age, you might want to try these few tips out. 

DO THINGS IN THE ABSENCE OF PEOPLE: Eye service will take you nowhere. Have it in mind that all eyes are always on you. It is the things you do in the absence of people that makes up who you are when you are in the midst of people. 

SILENCE: Let your silence do the talking.  If you must talk make sure it’s full of sense, sometimes when you miss-yan (talk carelessly) or say something absolutely irrelevant just apologies. People get us wrong most times especially when we are not in same school of thought...when mixed feelings arises, instead of doing so much explanation and making a huge fool of yourself just keep quiet (I learnt this the hard way trust me). In my article #Silence i mentioned numerous things silence can do in personal development.

SOURCE FOR INFORMATION AND DO RESEARCHES: Information is power, have something educating, inspiring, and motivating to talk about. No one knows it all, there is one thing you are so passionate about; make detailed research on that thing, build adequate ways to relay it to people. In no distance time, you will be a master in that field of thought.

PLAY: Some people think maturity is all about been up tight, looking sober accompanied with unhappiness unknown that they are just reflecting a sadist or mean continence. keep quiet when needed but play; everyone has a child in them we need to set loose once in a while, you can also play when you are alone (you have to be your best friend), crack jokes to yourself, tell yourself stories, go to the future in your head and see how you might look like. 

    All this approach boils down to how you effectively use them. Although there are countless ways to attain maturity but we should bear in mind that there is no perfect person, even me the writer might still witness some flaws, but it has been of great help to my maturity status. Seek the need to be reasonable in your actions and make the world around you a better place.

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